Sex chat a stranger
As long as you aren't:then they must just be having an off night - or perhaps they need to learn a few conversational skills themselves. To have the confidence to start conversations, it's a great idea to train your brain beforehand.
Use self-hypnosis to visualize (and so instil the pattern in your mind of) yourself being calm, relaxed, friendly, and coherent when approaching new people.
This means anything you say is more likely to feel right (within sensible limits). But gentle, not too probing, questions show you're interested (and people find interested people interesting).Strangely enough, it all went down very differently to how I’d imagined.