Dating after a 3 year relationship
Dating after divorce isn’t easy, and will require a great group of people surrounding you to keep you motivated and inspired!
Maybe it’s your buddies from work, school, your family, neighbors or kids.
Are you aware of your role in the marriage’s demise?
And, have you made as much peace as possible with your ex and the divorce?
I coach all of my clients through a “marriage map” exercise to create a road map of a partner that will make them happy, which is necessary to start picking the right people. Many women stare blankly at me when I ask this question, because they’ve been so busy taking care of everyone else around them that they’ve totally lost sight of what makes them happy.
Make a list of five to 10 things that bring you joy, and start to do them again.
And when it comes to the getting rid of baby fat; blame biology for that, not the girl.4.Divorce is one of the most traumatic events we go through, and when we reach the proverbial "light at the end of the tunnel," many of us feel that little spring in our step and start to think about dating again.So how can you start off on the right foot when you're just beginning to dip your toes back into the dating pool?RELATED: Complaining just might be the secret to a happy relationship If you don’t have the built-in village, consider enlisting a professional, someone who can help you maintain enthusiasm and set and achieve goals.
The dating village should be filled with people who support you and will bring you up, instead of bringing you down.Once you have a road map of a partner that makes you happy, give attraction and chemistry a chance to develop, even if it takes five or more dates to figure it out.